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A Story About A Boy Named Mikey  


Let me tell you a story. It's about a boy named Mikey. Mikey's your average kid. He loves sports, playing video games and just hanging out with his friends. He does ok in school; he gets average grades, and every single weekend his parents would take him to church. He'd listen to the teacher talk about the Bible and Mikey was interested in hearing about this Jesus, who he thought was a pretty cool dude. He believed in God. And during these times at church he would close his eyes real tight and pray to Him. This is how he was in church on the weekend, but during the week, he would very rarely think of God. He didn't pray during the week. He didn't read the Bible. He wasn't involved in church activities because he was busy playing sports and trying to pass spelling tests.

So between school and other activities, he didn't have time for God. And this is how his life continued for years. As Mikey got older he started to get in trouble from time to time. At first, it was small stuff, mischief, the "boys will be boys" kind of stuff. As time went on he got into more serious trouble. He would go to the mall and shoplift, he would steal from the stores, and he even stole money from his own mother! Mikey also got into drugs. He was able to hide it well from his parents, because he had the appearance of a pretty good kid. Besides, during this whole time, he still was at church with his parents every weekend - until he turned 18 years old. It was then that he moved away from home and went to college. The stealing and the drug use continued on during his college years - but one thing in his life did not continue on - and that was going to church. The only reason that he went before was because his parents made him go. Now, being away from home, he could do what he wanted, when he wanted, and because he wasn't made to go, he didn't.

Let me ask you a question… How often do you think something like this happens? A child grows up going to church, he/she becomes a young adult and leaves the home, has some level of freedom, and then stops going to church. They have very little, or no interest at all in the things of God. How often does this happen?

  1. About 25% of the time?
  2. How about 50% of the time?
  3. 75%?

The answer is... anywhere from 70 - 85%, depending on which poll you look at. This is a real problem.
 


 

There is a variety of answers to the question of why young people leave the church:

1. They have doubt
2. They see hypocrisy
3. They think church is boring
4. It's too political
5. The church is always asking for money

This could turn into a long discussion about of each of these reasons. The bottom line is this - there is really only one reason - they're not converted! They're not Christians. They haven't been born again. Those who leave didn't lose their salvation - they never had it to begin with. The Bible speaks to this situation:

They went out from us, but they were not really of us; for if they had been of us, they would have remained with us; but they went out, so that it would be shown that they all are not of us. 1 John 2:19

 

 

Want to know why this is so important to me? That story that I told you about Mikey... that was me. That was my life. I went to church for years, and I was lost. Sure, I would have told you I was a Christian and that I believed in Jesus, because I did. I believed just like the demons believe, yet I didn't even tremble. (James 2:19) I just assumed that I would go to heaven because I did all the religious stuff (I went to church, I prayed, I even received communion). Moreover, I was convinced, not of the goodness of God, but of my own goodness, despite everything in my life giving evidence to the contrary. Not one person in my life ever told me that I had to repent! I was deceived for 30 years.

I'm glad I didn't die because would have certainly gone straight to hell. And I would have nobody to blame but myself. But thank the Lord, at age 30, He saved me. I had nothing to do with it. I simply responded biblically when the true gospel was finally presented to me. I wasn't a backslider; I never slid forward to begin with! I don't think anyone backslides for a couple of decades. I was lost, and I would currently be on my way to hell - but for the grace of God.

So when people claim to be Christians, that means next to nothing to me. I say that not based upon my own belief, but on the strength of Jesus' words in Matthew chapter 7. He says that many will say to Him on the Day of Judgment, Lord, Lord didn't we do this, and didn't we do that for you, and Jesus ultimately says to these people who are claiming to be His followers, depart from Me, I never knew you.

That's terrifying. It's very dangerous to lead a person into believing that they are a Christian, when their life gives strong evidence that they have very little interest in the things of God, and no regard for His law. 

 


       


Questions

The Big Question

Does God Exist?

What Is The Bible?

Is The Bible True?

Who Is Jesus?

Is Jesus In Every Book Of The Bible?

Is Jesus God?

Did Jesus Fulfill Any Prophecies?

Did God Create You?

What About Reincarnation?

Are You Going To Heaven?

What Is The Truth About Hell?

What are the Essentials of the Faith?

Who Will You Believe?

Want To Find A Good Church?

Looking For A Church In Harrisburg, Pennsylvania?

Which Bible Translation Is Right For Me?

 

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"All Religions Lead To God"

"Never Talk About Religion Or Politics"

"Judge Not..."

"The Bible Is Full Of Contradictions"

"A Powerful God Wouldn't Allow So Much Evil..."

"The Church Is Full Of Hypocrites"

"What About Those Who Never Hear About Jesus?"

"A God of Love vs. A God of Wrath"

"A Loving God Wouldn't Send People To Hell"

"You're Only A Christian Because You..."

"As Long As You're Sincere In What You Believe"

"How Do You Know Which Religion Is Right?"

"God Would Never Forgive Someone Like Me"

"I Can't Believe In Miracles"

"Unanswered Prayer Shows God Doesn't Exist"

"What's With All The Different Denominations?"

"Jesus Was Just a Copycat of Pagan Myths"

"What About The Crusades?"

"What About Slavery In The Bible?"

"What About Evolution?"

"What About Homosexuality?"

"Jesus Didn't Say Anything About Homosexuality"

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Theological Terms and Definitions

Belief Comparison Chart

An Eschatological Overview (End Times)

Good Quotes

Paul Washer Quotes

20 Logical Fallacies

17 Questions Every Christian Should Think About

My Prayer - I Have A Problem...

More Than A Holiday

Honest Questions for Jehovah's Witnesses

Honest Questions For Mormons

Questions For Skeptics

10 Reasons To Tell Your Kids The Truth About Santa

A View From The Life Boat

A Collection of Helpful Bible Passages

A Story About A Boy Named Mikey

Thoughts On The Doctrine Of Definite Atonement

Questions To Ask A Child Before Their Baptism

A Critique Of An Origin-Of-Life Article

No Hope In The Pope

Terrorism - What You Can Do About It

The Impact Of A Blind Elderly Woman

Evidence For The Resurrection - W.O.M.E.N.

 

Apologetics / Evangelism

What Is Apologetics?

Why Should We Do Apologetics?

What Is Presuppositional Apologetics? 

What Do You KNOW? 

What Is Evangelism? 

Why Should We Evangelize? 

Are Christian Doing A Good Job Of Evangelizing? 

7 Reasons People Don't Share Their Faith

The Question Of Evangelism - Words Or Works? 

Is The World In Which We Live In Today Tolerant? 

Preaching What We Practice and Talking The Walk

Man vs. God Centered Evangelism

 

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An Important Aspect of Baptism

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10 Reasons Not To Ask Jesus Into Your Heart

10 Principles For New Christians

10 Pitfalls Of The Foolish Apologist

Evangelistic Phrases That Produce False Conversions

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Preaching God's Love In Acts?

The Gospel In Every Book Of The Bible

7 Key Differences Bewteen Protestant And Catholic Doctrine

A Different Perspective On Halloween

10 Reasons I Kissed Halloween Goodbye

The Question After A Tragedy - WHY?

The Impact of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

Thoughts About Bruce (Caitlyn) Jenner

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Sin By Any Other Name Is Still Sin

Should a Woman Be a Pastor or Elder?

Wives, Submit To Your Husbands?

The Shack - Missing Art of Evangelical Discernment

Universalism - A Problem for Everyone

5 Problems With Roman Catholic Theology

5 More Problems With Roman Catholic Theology

 

Audio / Video

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     Does Jesus Know You? - Paul Washer

     We Got An A! - Paul Washer

     A Boy On The Street - R.C. Sproul

     Fearless - R.C. Sproul

     Hypocrites - R.C. Sproul

     Smiling Faces - R.C. Sproul

     Authorized Personnel Only - Tony Evans

     Drive-thru - Tony Evans

     One Flesh - Tony Evans

     Sex - Tony Evans

     The Satisfier - Tony Evans

     Who to Serve? - Pastor Mike Leonzo

     The Voice of Truth - Pastor Ben Maxie

     Transformed - Pastor Mike Leonzo

     Where is the Love? - Pastor Ben Maxie

     He Claimed to be God - Pastor Mike Leonzo

     Love is a Behavior - Pastor Ben Maxie

     Examine It for Yourself - Pastor Mike Leonzo

     Perfect Love - Pastor Ben Maxie

     We Need Preachers - Mike Bongo

     The Sovereignty of God in Evangelism - Mike Bongo 

     I'm Ready - Mike Bongo

     Our Day in Court - Mike Bongo

     Examine Yourself - Mike Bongo

     Exclusivity - Mike Bongo

     Our World - Mike Bongo

     The Great Exchange - Mike Bongo 

     True God - Mike Bongo

    The One Minute Apologist

     Intolerance - Greg Koukl

     Legislating Morality - Frank Turek

     Intelligent Design and Creation - Bill Dembski

     Tolerance is Unbiblical - Josh McDowell

     Homosexual Forgiveness - Michael Brown

     What Must I Do To Be Saved? - Hank Hannegraaff

     Is Jesus A Copycat Savior? - J. Warner Wallace

     The Resurrection - Gary Habernas

     Contradictions In The Bible - Mike Licona

     Is It About Winning Arguments? - Mary Jo Sharp

     Does Christianity Oppress Women? - Dianna Newman

     Is Evil An Argument For God? - Brett Kunkle

   WWUTT (When We Understand The Text)

     Hate The Sin, Love The Sinner?

     Thou Shalt Not Judge?

     God Will Never Give You More Than You Can Handle?

     Do We Have To Prove That God Exists?

     Preach The Gospel, If Necessary Use Words?

     You Don't Have To Go To Church To Be A Christian?

     I Stand At The Door And Knock?

     God Has Already Chosen Who Will Be Saved?

     Spare The Rod, Spoil the Child?

     The Bible Says Slavery is Okay?

     Are Catholics Saved?

     God Foreknew Who Would Be Saved?

     Does The Bible Say Homosexuality is A Sin?

     Alter Calls And The Sinner's Prayer?

     Worse Than An Unbeliever?

    Kids Section

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     David Platt On Sharing the Gospel With Children

     For The Children: Are You Saved? - Paul Washer

     2 Amazing 11 Year Old Boys

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     Rescue The Perishing

     Emeal Zwayne's Dialogue With A Homosexual

     The Big Questions of Life - Voddie Baucham

   Explore God

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     Can We Know God Personally?

     Why Does God Allow Pain And Suffering?

     Is Jesus Really God?

     Are Christians Judgmental?

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     The Book of Genesis Overview - Part 1 of 2 

     The Book of Genesis Overview - Part 2 of 2 

     The Book of Exodus Overview - Part 1 of 2

     The Book of Exodus Overview - Part 2 of 2

     The Book of Leviticus Overview

     The Book of Numbers Overview

     The Book of Deuteronomy Overview

     The Book of Joshua Overview

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     The Book of Ruth Overview

     The Book of 1 Samuel Overview

     The Book of 2 Samuel Overview

     The Books of 1 and 2 Kings Overview

     The Book of Job Overview

     The Book of Psalms Overview

     The Book of Proverbs Overview

     The Book of Song of Songs Overview

     The Book of Isaiah Overview - Part 1 of 2

     The Book of Isaiah Overview - Part 2 of 2

     The Book of Hosea Overview

     The Book of Joel Overview

     The Book of Amos Overview

     The Book of Obadiah Overview

     The Book of Jonah Overview

     The Book of Micah Overview

     The Book of Nahum Overview

     The Book of Habakkuk Overview

     The Book of Zephaniah Overview 

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Street Conversations - Raheem part 2

Street Conversations - My Mom

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Street Conversations - Hippy part 2

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Street Conversations - Alexander and Valerie

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Street Conversations - Blake

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Street Conversations - Pete

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Me      

My Baptism

Parable Of The Talents  

Survey Says  

A Hard Lesson  

Talking About Jesus  

The Perfect Gift  

A Faith Worth Thinking About  

Stand Strong  

Peace At Christmas  

Resolutions From Revelation  

Takin' The Gospel To The Streets  

Responding Rightly To The Gospel Of Grace  

A Defense That Honors God And His Word  

Encouragement In Corinth  

The Dash

Surrendering To Win

The Gospel

The Laborers Are Few; Therefore...

Love Has No Labels - A Response

Faith That Works

Atheists: They Don't Exist

YOU Must Be NEW

Making a Difference - Outreach and Evangelism  

Luke - A Careful Investigation to be Sure  

Be Kind! Yeah, But Why?

 

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